Paul tells us that many saints will have an experience similar to Enoch's at the return of Jesus, never having to experience the death of this mortal body. "Behold", he says, "I show you a mystery. We shall not all sleep (i.e. go to our graves), but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump. For the trumpet of God shall sound, and the dead [in Christ] shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed" (I Cor.15:51-52). Giving more detail, Paul wrote to the Thessalonians, "For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, and with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God. And the dead in Christ shall rise first. Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words" (I Thess.4:16-18). And what a comfort those words are!

An old hymn springs from memory with these precious words: I want to live till Jesus comes back to this earth again And catches up his chosen bride a thousand years to reign. But should I die before that time, I know the empty clay Shall be caught up to meet the Lord, And I'll be there anyway.

I sang that song at the bedside of an elderly and godly mother in Christ, a few days before she departed this life. What great comfort there is in the Spirit's assurance that "whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord. Whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's" (Rom.14:8). How the hope of the resurrection and the hope of being reunited with the saints gone before, compels me to walk in truth and love! In our time, much is being said, and perhaps necessarily so concerning child abuse. It is a terrible crime to harm a precious little child. However, the greatest form of child abuse has yet to be mentioned in the media. That is, of a parent dying in sin. When a mother or father goes to his or her grave without being forgiven and cleansed from sin, the children are left in a horrible, cruel dilemma. If the children follow their natural feelings, their natural, strong desire to be with their parents, they must refuse to receive God's cleansing Spirit and, so, go where their parents went. Or, they can follow after godliness, all the while realizing that to receive God's Spirit and walk in God's ways means never to see mother or father again. It is a horrible dilemma. A cruelty beyond description, perpetrated upon children by parents who will not humble themselves before God. Parents, consider the choices you will be forcing your children to make if you go to your graves in a sinful condition.

On the other hand, how an offspring's love of mother and father can work hand in hand with the convictions and calling of God, when the parents die in faith. The child then knows that in order to see mother or father again, he must submit to the righteousness of God. What a great demonstration of godly love it is for a parent to fall asleep in Jesus! How that helps the children make the right choice!

I remember being with my brother and sisters around my mother's bedside, holding her hands that were once so warm and gentle but now were growing cooler every moment, as her spirit slowly forsook its earthly house. With tears, and yet with confidence of her hope in Christ, my brother and I together sang softly to her, as she drifted away, the words of that beautiful hymn,

I want to stroll over heaven with you some glad day, When all our troubles and heartaches have vanished away. We'll enjoy all the beauty where all things are new. I want to stroll over heaven with you.

What a great gift she gave to her children by dying in Christ! How my desire to hold her warm and gentle hand agains works with, not against, God's call to come! How I thank God that my mother lived so that her children all know that to be reunited with her, we must follow after the wonderful things of the Spirit of God! And my prayer is that when my time shall come to cross that wide, fixed gulf between here and eternity, that my children's desire to be with their father shall also be a help to their faith, rather than a weight, pulling against it.

It is no wonder that the scripture says "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints" (Ps.116:15). God knows the powerful, compelling effect that a saint's death will have upon those who were close to that righteous person. But God grieves over a sinner who dies in sin, not only because of that one lost soul, but because of the powerful, compelling effect that a sinner's death will have upon those who loved that unrighteous person. "Have I any pleasure at all that the wicked should die?" God asked, "and not [rather] that he should return from his ways, and live?" (Ezek.18:23). There is no joy in heaven when an unconverted person dies. No joy. But even the angels rejoice, Jesus told us, over just one sinner who turns from sin (Lu.15:10). It is, truly, an event for which to rejoice. As the song says, it "makes news in heaven" when a soul is delivered from sin.

Let me ask you again to pause and consider the question, if you were to die today, would the love that others have for you work with the call of God on their lives or against it? Are you going to a place to which you want your loved ones to come? Are you traveling to a place wherein they will to join you? Your destination, your condition at death will bear an incredible weight of influence over your loved ones. And if you're thinking that for the sake of others is not a godly enough reason to come to Christ, let me remind you that everything that Christ himself did was for the sake of others. That, my friend, is the best reason to do anything.

If you are feeling the tender call of God to eternal life, if your spirit is not free of sin, take time now to set your sails in the other direction. Set your sails toward the home of the blessed. Jesus is waiting there for you. And those you love will not be far behind.